How to HEAL Self CONFIDENCE – Let go of what others think of you – True Healing Source

Does the thought of others JUDGING you cause you FEAR and ANXIETY and block you from living your life authentically with JOY

Does caring what others think of you affect your life? YOU BETCHA! In more ways than you can imagine!

• Do you feel safe or comfortable being yourself around others?
• Is your SELF CONFIDENCE based on what others think of you or what you THINK others think of you?
• Are you afraid of BEING the AUTHENTIC YOU that you are here to be for fear of ABANDONMENT and judgement?
• Do you hide parts of yourself for fear that others will judge you or confront you, or that being you makes others uncomfortable?
• Do you worry so much about what others think of you that it affects your health emotionally or physically, causes anxiety or depression, or affects your job or social life, causes you fear of leaving the house, and affects your relationships with others?
• Are you terrified of saying “no” out of fear of abandonment?

How can you heal the shame of being yourself and show up more powerfully and shamelessly in your authentic self around others?

How can you increase your SELF LOVE & SELF CONFIDENCE and stop GIVING A RIP about what others think of you?

Sometimes there are old beliefs caused by trauma or other events in your life that block you from allowing yourself to be authentic in who you are in your heart and soul.

From a young age we are taught that we are suppose to behave a certain way to make others happy, or be accepted or liked or loved by others. And, when we “fail” to do this, we are reprimanded in some way or even abandoned or we may even experience love and affection being taken away from us unless or until we return to the accepted behavior to make others happy.

In many cases we experience people abandoning us if we don’t show them our adoration or appreciation or attention in a way they need us to. For me personally, I had to heal the fear that if I set boundaries, said no and showed up authentically allowing myself to shine, then others would abandon me. It happened too many times over my life (I just turned 50!)

I was able to F.I.N.A.L.L.Y HEAL this for myself and choose to let go of what others think of me. I decided that I am WORTH IT! I am worth LOVE. I am LOVABLE! And, so are YOU!

I became OK with releasing others who don’t support me or who only show up when they need something from me. I used to be terrified of losing people. Now, I feel more empowered to walk away from relationships that no longer serve my highest good or my life’s intentions and emotional or physical Optimal Health, relationships that are ONE SIDED, selfish or harmful.

Are you READY to HEAL your Self WORTH, Self APPRECIATION and feel more EMPOWERED in who you really are without shame or guilt?

The truth is that you are meant to be different from everyone else. You are meant to shine and be seen in your authentic unique beauty as an extension of Source Energy. It is spiritual TRUTH! You are born with self LOVE, self APPRECIATION, self CONFIDENCE and Joy! You are born knowing that you are here to experience this World and physical Life in a way that brings YOU Joy! And, you are born knowing that you are fully Loved and ADORED and completely accepted by Source Energy (God, Universe, etc.) in every moment in time.

You are also TAUGHT from early on by others that you are not WORTHY & LOVABLE just being you. You are taught that you have to EARN LOVE and affection by behaving a certain way. You are taught that you have to earn your worth by making a certain amount of money, that you have to earn Love or acceptance by being a certain size, color, shape, gender, race, religion, sexual orientation and the list goes on and on! You are taught that being an individual unique being with personal preferences is an inconvenience and goes against society and is punished.

I have learned from experience that once you are able to fully let go of the terror, fear, shame and guilt of who you are, you will be able to fully SHOW UP as the authentic YOU that you are here to be in your physical body! Once you allow yourself to feel LOVE for yourself and self APPRECIATION without shame or guilt, you will STOP the constant worry and inner chatter about what others think of you and you will be able to live your life more fully in all ways!

Once you are able to heal the parts of you that are blocking self ACCEPTANCE and you allow yourself to fully step into the authentic YOU that you are here to be, you will attract different people and circumstances into your life that support your VALUE, your WORTH and the LOVE that you deserve as an Infinite Being of the Universe. Only then will you begin MANIFESTING all the things that you think are being held back from you.

YOU MANIFEST WHAT YOU ARE! You manifest things in your life that equal the VIBRATION that you emit. You receive experiences that are in alignment with your thoughts, beliefs and feelings about any given subject including the subject of YOU and your value in this Universe!

• If you are not manifesting or receiving all that you desire in one area or all areas of your life, take a look at your beliefs around those subjects or about Life in general.
• Take a look at your beliefs around what you think is possible for you.
• Take a much closer look at what your beliefs are about your worthiness as a being in the eyes of others and in the eyes of Source Energy (God, Universe).
• Do you feel worthy or lovable?

The funny thing is that in many cases, we think people are judging us a certain way, and the truth is they are only concerned about what others are thinking about them in return. I remember something I read many years ago about working out in a gym, and it was something about not worrying what you look like while you are working out, because everyone else in the gym is only worrying about what they look like while they are working out. They are NOT paying attention to you at all! They are looking in the mirror, checking themselves out, making sure they are up to par, looking good and not being judged, too! They don’t GIVE A RIP about what you look like or what you’re wearing! They don’t give a damn about how your dressed! They don’t give a crap about if you can bench a certain amount! And, if they are looking around, it’s to see who’s WATCHING THEM! The next time I went to the gym, I recognized this as truth and I laughed to myself!

• What do you feel is blocking you from living authentically?
• What traumas can you recall in your life that are causing you to feel less than deserving?
• Is there a specific incident or event you can recall when something happened that made you feel judged or imperfect and from that point on you made a vow to yourself that you had to show up in a specific way in order to receive Love, admiration or acceptance?

As a Intuitive Self Love Coach & Advanced Diagnostic Energy Healer, my passion is helping you identify and clear blocks to stepping into your AUTHENTIC SELF. I have healed many of my Self WORTH issues and traumas, and I have helped many other women heal self worth, self APPRECIATION, clear ANXIETY and depression, heal loss of LOVE after relationships end and feel powerful Self Love and valuable and lovable again, heal fear of leaving the house and return to work and live a normal life with more Joy and SELF LOVE and EMPOWERMENT without worrying about others opinions and judgements of them!

You can HEAL YOUR LIFE! You are completely WORTHY and DESERVING of Love, Joy and Greatness!

A fun way you can begin self healing is mastering your emotions and changing your beliefs. One way you can do this is by using affirmation cards or mantras with meditation. These printable affirmation cards are a great way to get started!

Visit here to purchase printable Law of Attraction Affirmation Card Decks, Printable Self Love Affirmation Card Decks and Printable Body Love Affirmation Card Decks.

I can help you heal your life! I can help you discover and powerfully CLEAR your blocks to feeling Self LOVE without feeling shame or guilt. I can help you shift your mindset about your self WORTH and who you are… I can help you feel EMPOWERED in your authentic self. I can help you in self healing your fear of ASKING for what you want in your relationships!

Are you READY?

Let’s talk…


Yvette lives boldly from her Heart allowing Source Energy to guide her toward living her best life inJoy. She shares information as a coach about law of attraction and spiritual consciousness, and leads by example as a positive energy & authentic living guide and is certified in multiple energy healing methods and is also a creative artist. Yvette has not only used these tools to profoundly self heal many areas of her life, but has also worked with others in discovering self love through reconnection with Source Energy, increased appreciation and more inner peace and live more authentically and empowered to experience their best life.

*PLEASE NOTE: I am not a licensed healthcare provider, counselor or therapist. I offer my services as a self-help educator and coach to natural wellness and positive living guide from my own personal experience and coaching others to betterment. I do not diagnose or treat illness, disease, or psychological problems. eCoaching Sessions and energy healing are not a substitute for medical advice, therapy or other counseling from a medical professional. True Healing Source offers an alternative method that is considered complimentary to other healing methods and can been used to enhance other traditional healing methods. If you are experiencing a significant issue, are in distress or significant pain, please connect with the appropriate professional service such as a licensed doctor. By choosing this eCoaching Service, you agree to be 100% fully responsible for your health and well-being physically and emotionally. You release all responsibility and liability from True Healing Source and it’s affiliates. You take 100% full responsibility for you self-healing and health.

How I Healed My Sexual Assault Trauma with PTSD using Energy Healing

I have been studying and using energy healing for about 15 years. I use it in my coaching to help others effectively release emotional upset & self heal emotional and physical issues.

I thought I would share a little about me and how I became an energy healer using some of the most comprehensive methods of energy healing available in the World today.

I am not what you would call a “realist”, the word “spiritualist” comes to mind, although I giggle, because I am not sure that is a real word (I have been known for making up words all my life). I don’t look at the World and take it at face value. I feel something deeper, and have always experienced the World by “feeling” it rather than observing.

I have always felt for people and animals and all of life differently than those I was surrounded by and was told I was “too sensitive”. So, I took that as a bad thing, and tried to be harder, which is against my general nature and did not work for me. I have also always been highly intuitive and as far back as I can recall I have been a healer of hearts, always helping others feel better wherever I went. I can’t count how many times others told me they just felt better being around me. But, in many cases I would take in others energy & trauma in order to help them heal and feel better, and it was toxic for me (which I didn’t realize until I was an adult). Also, it doesn’t work. It is not anyone else’s responsibility to “take on” someone else’s issues in order to heal them nor can you.

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I experienced sexual trauma as a child around age 6-8, and repeatedly again as a teen and to compact it, I was also raised in a home with a parent who suffered with severe PTSD, deep depression, mood swings, many negative emotions, self sabotage, rage & anger issues along with serious health (2nd hand PTSD). We moved frequently and barely had enough money for necessities most of the time.

Even though it was natural for me to be a healer, I didn’t realize that it was necessary & healthier for me to heal and become stronger so that I could help others in the best way possible and not receive their emotional wounds. I would have to address my own heavy traumas that needed healing and were being ignored. I feel that experiencing some of the things that have occurred in my life, have allowed me to be an even better coach/healer that I might have been otherwise, with Unconditional Love and acceptance. My heart is open to helping others heal without judgement and my intention is to help others feel safe while working together.

I actually found energy healing while I was powerfully asking the Universe for something that I could use to help someone in my life that is very close to me, in order to help them find inner peace and recover from severe PTSD and depression and also lead them to heal from some severe health issues. I also ended up finding that I, too needed it much more than I realized or was willing to acknowledge.”

Eventually, I recognized that if you ignore your own healing long enough, it keeps rearing its ugly head and in time, you just can’t ignore what is going on, physical symptoms, deep depression, self worth issues, bouts of crying days at a time, hiding so no one would see or know what I was experiencing, along with severe self loathing and self destructive patterns that follow you, wondering why you are even here. At some point, you have to address the demons and begin your own self healing.

For me, it was a bit of a scary process when I began to shine a light on the things that broke me down, the things I allowed to torture me for so long. I would have to share these things that I never talked about before with some of the people closest to me in my life. What if they didn’t understand? What if they looked at me differently? What if they walked away when they found out my story and what I experienced that made me who I am? What if they responded un-caring and disregarded my feelings and fears?

I also recognized that it was scary to see myself as healed and self empowered, letting go of being a “victim”. Who would I be without all this baggage and fear? I had been this way most of my life. Some of my old patters actually benefited me in some way up til that point. Who would I be without all this self hatred weighing me down? Could I actually be happy, is there such a thing? Could I actually heal for real? What would others think if I was not who they were used to me being? Am I strong enough to speak up for myself instead of cowering out of fear of “upsetting the apple cart”? At different times over the years, when I actually tried to stand up for myself and speak my truth, I have been called a bitch, because I was not giving in to what made others happy but instead made me scared, unsafe, feel terror, miserable or really uncomfortable. I didn’t know how to say “no” to others or even myself. I found through my own self healing that I believed deep down that I deserved to suffer and deserved to be sick.

It was all too dark, and I pleaded with the Universe for healing. It was either I did the work, or I wouldn’t want to live like this any longer. The pain was not worth it.

Using the Comprehensive Energy Healing that I learned, I began peeling back layers of trauma and releasing sorrow, guilt, shame, self hatred, terror and fear. I began to address the beliefs that I was unworthy, I deserved to suffer, that others are unsafe and harm me. I began to identify and release unconscious intentions to stay sick. I began healing specific trauma fields. And, I constantly worked at shifting my mindset.

I began to feel the deep depression and despair beginning to lift. I began to feel hope. I began actually liking “me” and who I was despite what others might think about me. I began taking care of myself differently, realizing that I am worth taking time for. I am worth honoring “me”. I began peeling back the layers of lies that were covering up my authentic self. In order to keep peace and avoid confrontation, I had been who everyone else expected me to be or wanted me to be in many cases.

At first, it was difficult to be different around certain people who were close to me, as I began behaving differently, with more self awareness and responding differently to their behavior. I was met with opposition sometimes and found that I had to explain my behavior to them when I didn’t react the way they wanted me to, like I might have in the past. Deep inside, I didn’t feel that I owed anyone an explanation. I had the right to be stronger, to heal, to be authentic and not just allow others to harm me. I found that I had many triggers.

Through my never ending journey into my authentic self, I began having moments of self appreciation and Joy. Those moments lasted longer and I began desiring more and more happiness. It was addicting actually! I realized this was better than all the suffering. I began to realize that it was OK to heal. I began realizing that I was worth it. I began realizing that if others didn’t understand or walked away, I would be OK, because I deserve to live happy. I now choose to have people close to me that support my healing and Optimal Health and I deserve that.

I also experienced what you would call “Universal Love” for everyone and everything which has completely shifted my experience in the World and I experience more. I have experienced instant “miracle” healing which has allowed me to recognize that literally anything is possible without exception. I don’t view the World or Universe at “face value”. I recognize there is something much deeper that our eyes don’t see. Much more than we allow our physical senses to experience in this physical realm we call Earth.

It is my intention to help others in their own self healing journey through coaching and sharing this Comprehensive Energy Healing that has been so powerful in my life and share other methods I have picked up along the way to find more inner peace and experience deeper spiritual connection and Universal Love.

If you are ready to begin your self healing journey, I can help. Visit https://truehealingsource.com to find out more about scheduling a coaching session or click on the SELF HELP tab for some powerful FREE self healing resources.

*PLEASE NOTE: I am not a licensed healthcare provider, counselor or therapist. I offer my services as a self-help educator and coach to natural wellness and positive living guide. I do not diagnose or treat illness, disease, or psychological problems. eCoaching Sessions and energy healing are not a substitute for medical advice, therapy or other counseling from a medical professional. True Healing Source offers an alternative method that is considered complimentary to other healing methods and can been used to enhance other traditional healing methods. If you are experiencing a significant issue, are in distress or significant pain, please connect with the appropriate professional service such as a licensed doctor. By choosing this eCoaching Service, you agree to be 100% fully responsible for your health and well-being physically and emotionally. You release all responsibility and liability from True Healing Source and it’s affiliates. You take 100% full responsibility for you self-healing and health.

Energy Healing & Types of Trauma

There are 3 main categories that a trauma might fall into:

  1. Acute trauma results from a single incident.
  2. Chronic trauma is repeated and prolonged such as domestic violence or abuse.
  3. Complex trauma is exposure to varied and multiple traumatic events, often of an invasive, interpersonal nature.

It is important to remember that any type of trauma can occur to humans or animals.

Acute Trauma

Acute Trauma normally results from a single incident such as death, robbery/mugging, an accident, natural disaster, a specific sexual assault, car accident, serious injury (dog bite), surgery trauma, witnessing violent event, or experiencing something that threatens a persons emotional or physical safety. It can even be a portrayed thought about an event in the future.

Experiencing Acute Trauma can leave one with feeling of intense fear, horror, or helplessness. This can be considered a form of PTSD, and is referred to as Acute Stress Disorder (ASD).

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A person who has experienced acute trauma may display other signs + symptoms after the event such as:

  • Panic or extreme anxiety
  • Depression
  • Confusion or irritation
  • Dissociation/feeling disconnected from self + surroundings
  • Interrupted sleep patterns
  • Suspicious behavior
  • Lack of self-care
  • Loss of focus/production at work or school

Chronic Trauma

Chronic Trauma normally results from repeated incidence of trauma, whether physical or emotional such as domestic violence, sexual trauma, , bullying, serious illness (ex: cancer or other long lasting disease), etc.

PTSD is normally present and manifests symptoms in behavior & thought patterns which can be long term if not addressed.

As with Acute trauma, the resulting symptoms can be the same and additional symptoms may occur.

Complex Trauma

Complex trauma can be present with some similar issues as Chronic Trauma and can result from scenarios such as war trauma (refugee/terrorism, soldiers continually being deployed to war zones ), domestic violence including severe physical + emotional abuse such as sexual assault, physical abuse and verbal abuse.

One source describes Complex Trauma as repetitive, prolonged and cumulative and in many cases involving an interpersonal relationship involving direct harm, exploitation, and maltreatment including neglect, abandonment, or antipathy. Complex Trauma can occur at any age from childhood to senior. In many cases it can occur for a person who is disempowered such as child, a person with dependence issues, someone with a disability or a specific age.

As with Acute trauma, the resulting symptoms can be the same and additional symptoms may occur.

In most cases Complex Trauma results in PTSD symptoms and repeated abusive situations. In my experience, identifying and releasing root cause issues can be very beneficial in complete healing and avoiding future abusive scenarios.

Any kind of trauma can have long term effects (PTSD) and each individual is different in the way they react. Sometimes a trauma is hidden in order to protect a person and there is no “conscious” memory. Sometimes the memory can become conscious later in life with a specific trigger and in some cases never consciously remembered. In any case, it does not make the trauma less severe or have less impact on a person/animals life. If you have experienced a severe trauma and are experiencing severe side effects such as contemplating suicide, I encourage you to seek medical assistance immediately.

My personal experience with childhood sexual trauma compounded by severe second hand PTSD reveals this profoundly. It can affect your life without consciously recognizing why you react the way you do to certain stimuli or triggers. You may have an uneasy “feeling” about something or someone and you just don’t know why. You might witness something on TV and you have a severe reaction to it compared to others. You might even just have a feeling that something “happened” to you but you can’t quite put your finger on it. This was my experience. Until I consciously had a flashback and was able to put all the pieces together and finally begin self healing the specifics of the events.

The amazing benefit of the method of Comprehensive Energy Healing I personally use in my life and in coaching others, is that you don’t have to repeatedly “relive” the trauma in order to release it for self healing.

I have worked with other women who were too embarrassed or upset to talk about the sexual trauma they experienced, and the self healing relief was amazing.

In my own experience, certain Chronic/Complex traumas can result in many lasting side effects in addition to the ones described above. There can also be serious self worth issues, self abusive behavior, self loathing, self hatred, severe depression, OCD behavior, addiction (alcohol, drugs, sex, food, etc.), nervous tics, severe need to be in control at all times, lack of financial income, not taking care of self, denial, fear of leaving the house & fear of large crowds, need to be in a a small safe place or room, unexplained and excessive anger & rage patterns, fear of loud noise or sudden movement, fear of facing away from doors (must sit against the wall in order to have full view of surroundings), fear of being approached from behind, severe reaction to certain situations that can’t be justified or explained (others react much less harshly) and more, being jumpy or erratic and so much more.

Experiencing trauma can be a very serious issue and should not be treated lightly. If you or someone you know has experienced ANY kind of trauma, especially something that is life altering, I encourage you to seek help.

Be sure to visit https://truehealingsource.com to find out more about our PERSONALIZED SELF LOVE & CONFIDENCE EMPOWERMENT eCoaching PROGRAM & while you are there, click on the “self help” tab for additional FREE self help resources including FREE meridian tapping codes

NOTE: This post is shared from my personal experience in self healing my own deep (repeated) personal traumas with Comprehensive Energy Healing (energy medicine). You must choose what is beneficial for you in healing your personal trauma whether that is a traditional source or alternative source.

Yvette is not a licensed therapist or doctor. Energy healing is not intended as diagnosis, prescription, or treatment for any disease, physical or mental. It is also not intended as a substitute for regular medical care.

Hold Harmless – by using these methods, you agree to be 100% solely responsible for your health & wellness, the health of your family, and animals and hold Yvette 100% free of responsibility or harm. Use of Energy healing and other alternative healing methods mentioned above, and bio-energetic muscle testing has never been found to cause harm to anyone.