Hello Beautiful Souls!
Does it frustrate you and even hurt when you see the discord and sheer meanness and madness that humanity exhibits? Wild animals display more love in many cases.
As you go out into the World it is easy to judge when someone is harsh toward you. However, we simply don’t know what they are going through that has caused them to be that way and their behavior is a sign of being far out of alignment with Source Energy.
Some people have experienced tremendous abuse and trauma and don’t have the means or knowledge about how to heal or even the conscious desire to heal and so they have no other way of experiencing the World other than in fear, terror, mistrust, unforgiveness, retaliation and a with cold heart.
Others may be narcissistic or gas-lighters or victimizers and simply enjoy watching others suffer at their hand and it makes them feel powerful and in control.
In my lifetime, I have encountered both on many occasions unfortunately.
If you are not careful of guarding your personal energy and boundaries, you can fall prey to allowing your own energy to dip at times after repeatedly experiencing these types of behavior from others, especially if you are a specific type of personality and demeanor or the environment you grew up in and if you have a plethora of unhealed issues in your own life and lack healthy boundaries.
Some people who have experienced deep trauma become cold of heart and they can take on the abusers energy to seek out and hurt others in a way to make themselves feel powerful, validated, seen or in control at all cost.
Others who have experienced deep trauma have the ability to see past the exterior and feel deep compassion for they don’t see the person with their eyes but they can see the other person from their heart.
If you are in the second category this can be a double edged sword and you have to also have significant boundaries in place because people with a victim mentality, narcissists, gas-lighters and victimizers will use that to their advantage as soon as they recognize it. You also have to heal yourself and have ways of recognizing those that will intentionally abuse your kind heart.
Yup! Been there most of my entire life!
So, what do you do?
I feel there are a few important things that you can do.
Although the list could be quite a bit longer, here are just a few things that can be significantly beneficial…
~ Heal yourself! This is by far The Most Important Gift you can give to yourself and the World. Ghandi said “Be The Change You Wish to See In This World!” It starts with you. This can be really difficult and it can take a bit of time, if you don’t have the money or the means at your disposal. However, there are many beneficial self healing methods out there and you can discover them for a fraction of the cost and some even offer free information to help you in your healing journey. Some methods may not offer everything for free (and they shouldn’t) however, sometimes just the free information they do offer can be tremendously beneficial and healing. Almost all of the healing I have done in this lifetime has been my own in depth study and application of a variety of self healing methods including energy healing, energy psychology, expanding my spiritual consciousness, law of attraction/law of creation and so much more. One caveat to this is to make sure that you avoid the self healing web that feels as if you are never actually “there” or healed or ready. Many who are on a self healing journey, a self discovery journey can get caught up in feeling that they are never fixed enough which keeps you out of alignment with your Source. This has been a long time program of the media and other false sources that convinces us that we are never perfect enough and always need some outside remedy to fix us (even though we are not broken) and some guru outside of ourselves to acknowledge when we are fixed enough, good enough or healed enough. We are not broken souls seeking validation, saving or fixing. This is an unhealthy loop that we can get caught up in. Yes, we are extensions of Source Energy and we are always expanding our consciousness, however, we are perfect and right just as we are. We are meant to be where we are right now, or we would be somewhere else. I know this is really hard to hear. We sooooooo want to be over there somewhere else. That takes shifting into personal alignment and a belief that you are truly worthy of all that you desire and that is is actually possible FOR YOU, all the good stuff, the health, abundance, comfort, Love, inner peace and more. Oh, and sometimes the thing that you think you want, involves some things that you aren’t willing to do in order to have it and sustain the experience of it. The Universe (your Higher Self, Source, Inner Self) knows this and is always guiding you toward what you truly desire in all ways to bring about the most beautiful outcome.
~ Recognize the not everyone in the World is harmful even though at times it can feel that way. When you have been in abusive relationships repeatedly, carrying the wounds and scars can make it feel as if there are no good humans out there. Although it can feel like it, this is simply not true. There are some really good people in this World that have their own trauma (who doesn’t?) and are simply trying to navigate this World the best they can. However, this does NOT mean that you have to allow yourself to continue to be in relationships with others who are not willing to heal, change or be better humans or who continue to abuse you and purposely step over your healthy boundaries. Once you are an adult, it is YOUR FULL RESPONSIBILITY to heal yourself. You can no longer play the blame game of who did what to you. You are an extension of Source Energy and this physical World offers so many really beneficial means of actual real healing. Step up, Ask the Universe for help and guidance, Stop playing victim and claim your Life in all its beauty. It is inside of you. It will transform your Life into something different. What if it all turns out better than you ever imagined?
~ Stop believing that “all the good ones are taken”. If you are seeking a healthy, Joyful and meaningful relationship with a significant other, know that not all the good ones are taken! Sometimes it seems that way, however the Universe has a plethora of “good ones” that are truly in mutual alignment with your personal Life design and are good for you, who will truly Love you for ALL that you are. There IS someone ready and waiting to reciprocate the great Love you offer. Unfortunately, sometimes we have to weed through those who are not in FULL alignment in order to more clearly define and sift and sort with the Universe to discover the full materialization of the best mutual match. It should always be about mutuality and win/win.
And, finally be the person you wish others would be to you. There is a funny quote that says, “be the human that your dog thinks you are”. What if we showed up in this World as the person that we wish we had in our Life. The person that is truly kind and compassionate. The person that does not harm us or abuse us on purpose or take advantage of us. The person that always has a smile to offer or a kind word. Kindness is free and it is contagious. Another quote I have loved since I was young (I had a tee shirt with this quote around age 10) that said, “smile, it’s contagious”. I didn’t realize the truth and beauty of this quote at that age, I simply loved that tee shirt without knowing why. Again, we don’t have to let others step on our boundaries, and we have the voice to speak up and walk away from unhealthy relationships when needed, however, there are plenty of things we can do within our healthy boundaries to be the Light and Love in the World that we wish would be reciprocated. And, when you begin doing this truly from your heart, the Universe begins to surprise and delight you with so many beautiful experiences and interactions with others from all directions that you never knew possible. “As within, so without”. Be the change my Loves.
That’s all for now…
Blessings of Optimal Health, Love, Abundance and Peace,
My work is dedicated to so many powerful Creators that came before my time & live today to teach spiritual truth & inPowerment, Neville Goddard, Abraham Hicks, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. David Hawkins, Wayne Dyer and so many more amazing Source Energy connections. Thank you with all my heart as I can feel the truth of your teachings flowing through me.
Yvette lives boldly from her Heart allowing Source Energy to guide her toward living her best life inJoy. She shares information as a coach about law of attraction, conscious living, spiritual consciousness and law of Creation, and leads by example as a positive energy & authentic living guide and is certified in multiple energy healing methods and is also a creative artist. Yvette has not only used these tools to profoundly self heal many areas of her life, but has also worked with others in discovering self love through reconnection with Source Energy, increased appreciation and more inner peace and live more authentically and empowered to experience their best life.
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