Does the thought of others JUDGING you cause you FEAR and ANXIETY and block you from living your life authentically with JOY
Does caring what others think of you affect your life? YOU BETCHA! In more ways than you can imagine!
• Do you feel safe or comfortable being yourself around others?
• Is your SELF CONFIDENCE based on what others think of you or what you THINK others think of you?
• Are you afraid of BEING the AUTHENTIC YOU that you are here to be for fear of ABANDONMENT and judgement?
• Do you hide parts of yourself for fear that others will judge you or confront you, or that being you makes others uncomfortable?
• Do you worry so much about what others think of you that it affects your health emotionally or physically, causes anxiety or depression, or affects your job or social life, causes you fear of leaving the house, and affects your relationships with others?
• Are you terrified of saying “no” out of fear of abandonment?
How can you heal the shame of being yourself and show up more powerfully and shamelessly in your authentic self around others?
How can you increase your SELF LOVE & SELF CONFIDENCE and stop GIVING A RIP about what others think of you?
Sometimes there are old beliefs caused by trauma or other events in your life that block you from allowing yourself to be authentic in who you are in your heart and soul.
From a young age we are taught that we are suppose to behave a certain way to make others happy, or be accepted or liked or loved by others. And, when we “fail” to do this, we are reprimanded in some way or even abandoned or we may even experience love and affection being taken away from us unless or until we return to the accepted behavior to make others happy.
In many cases we experience people abandoning us if we don’t show them our adoration or appreciation or attention in a way they need us to. For me personally, I had to heal the fear that if I set boundaries, said no and showed up authentically allowing myself to shine, then others would abandon me. It happened too many times over my life (I just turned 50!)
I was able to F.I.N.A.L.L.Y HEAL this for myself and choose not to give A RIP about what others think of me! I decided that I am WORTH IT! I am worth LOVE. I am LOVABLE! And, so are YOU!
I became OK with losing “friends” who don’t support me or who only show up when they need something from me. I used to be terrified of losing people that I cared about. Now, I am empowered to walk away from relationships that no longer serve my highest good or my life’s intentions and emotional or physical Optimal Health, relationships that are ONE SIDED, selfish or harmful.
Are you READY to HEAL your Self WORTH, Self APPRECIATION and feel more EMPOWERED in who you really are without shame or guilt?
The truth is that you are meant to be different from everyone else. You are meant to shine and be seen in your authentic unique beauty as an extension of Source Energy. It is spiritual TRUTH! You are born with self LOVE, self APPRECIATION, self CONFIDENCE and Joy! You are born knowing that you are here to experience this World and physical Life in a way that brings YOU Joy! And, you are born knowing that you are fully Loved and ADORED and completely accepted by Source Energy (God, Universe, etc.) in every moment in time.
You are also TAUGHT by other misled humans from the start that you are not WORTHY & LOVABLE just being you. You are taught that you have to EARN LOVE and affection by behaving a certain way. You are taught that you have to earn your worth by making a certain amount of money, that you have to earn Love or acceptance by being a certain size, color, shape, gender, race, religion, sexual orientation and the list goes on and on! You are taught that being an individual unique being with personal preferences is an inconvenience and goes against society and is punished.
I have learned from experience that once you are able to fully let go of the terror, fear, shame and guilt of who you are, you will be able to fully SHOW UP as the authentic YOU that you are here to be in your physical body! Once you allow yourself to feel LOVE for yourself and self APPRECIATION without shame or guilt, you will STOP giving a RIP about what others think of you and you will be able to live your life more fully in all ways!
Once you are able to heal the parts of you that are blocking self ACCEPTANCE and you allow yourself to fully step into the authentic YOU that you are here to be, you will attract different people and circumstances into your life that support your VALUE, your WORTH and the LOVE that you deserve as an Infinite Being of the Universe. Only then will you begin MANIFESTING all the things that you think are being held back from you.
YOU MANIFEST WHAT YOU ARE! You manifest things in your life that equal the VIBRATION that you emit. You receive experiences that are in alignment with your thoughts, beliefs and feelings about any given subject including the subject of YOU and your value in this Universe!
• If you are not manifesting or receiving all that you desire in one area or all areas of your life, take a look at your beliefs around those subjects or about Life in general.
• Take a look at your beliefs around what you think is possible for you.
• Take a much closer look at what your beliefs are about your worthiness as a being in the eyes of others and in the eyes of Source Energy (God, Universe).
• Do you feel worthy or lovable?
The funny thing is that in many cases, we think people are judging us a certain way, and the truth is they are only concerned about what others are thinking about them in return. I remember something I read many years ago about working out in a gym, and it was something about not worrying what you look like while you are working out, because everyone else in the gym is only worrying about what they look like while they are working out. They are NOT paying attention to you at all! They are looking in the mirror, checking themselves out, making sure they are up to par, looking good and not being judged, too! They don’t GIVE A RIP about what you look like or what you’re wearing! They don’t give a damn about how your dressed! They don’t give a crap about if you can bench a certain amount! And, if they are looking around, it’s to see who’s WATCHING THEM! The next time I went to the gym, I recognized this as truth and I laughed to myself!
• What do you feel is blocking you from living authentically?
• What traumas can you recall in your life that are causing you to feel less than deserving?
• Is there a specific incident or event you can recall when something happened that made you feel judged or imperfect and from that point on you made a vow to yourself that you had to show up in a specific way in order to receive Love, admiration or acceptance?
As a Intuitive Self Love Coach & Advanced Diagnostic Energy Healer, my passion is helping you identify and clear blocks to stepping into your AUTHENTIC SELF. I have healed many of my Self WORTH issues and traumas, and I have helped many other women heal self worth, self APPRECIATION, clear ANXIETY and depression, heal loss of LOVE after relationships end and feel powerful Self Love and valuable and lovable again, heal fear of leaving the house and return to work and live a normal life with more Joy and SELF LOVE and EMPOWERMENT without worrying about others opinions and judgements of them!
You can HEAL YOUR LIFE! You are completely WORTHY and DESERVING of Love, Joy and Greatness!
A fun way you can begin self healing is mastering your emotions and changing your beliefs. One way you can do this is by using affirmation cards or mantras with meditation. These printable affirmation cards are a great way to get started!
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I can help you heal your life! I can help you discover and powerfully CLEAR your blocks to feeling Self LOVE without feeling shame or guilt. I can help you shift your mindset about your self WORTH and who you are… I can help you feel EMPOWERED to walk away from friendships that no longer serve you instead of fearing abandonment! I can help you in self healing your fear of ASKING for what you want in your relationships!
Are you READY?
Yvette is a Self Love Coach & Women’s Empowerment Leader and practices Advanced Diagnostic Tapping Therapy & Remote Energy Healing and utilizes powerful tools to help you SHORTCUT YOUR JOURNEY and tap into over 15 years of her experience, expertise and her intense study of spiritual consciousness, self healing & COMPREHENSIVE ENERGY HEALING, law of attraction tools and everything in between in order to manifest your best life ever!
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