“I deeply and completely Love and accept myself “.
These are powerful words of affirmation. Many people can not say these words and truly mean it.
For most of my life I didn’t believe this even just an ounce.
I was raised to believe that taking care of me was selfish. I was raised to believe that putting other people’s feelings before my own was more important than expressing what I was feeling. I had to put others needs before my own even if I was hurting. I believed that being me was somehow wrong.
And, it also seemed that if I expressed myself, instead of taking on others opinions and beliefs as my own or agreeing with others that I was wrong. (I love Access Consciousness concept of “Who does this belong to?”)
So for the majority of my life I did what others expected of me and behaved in a certain way to receive others approval in order to avoid conflict of any kind.
As a little girl I can remember being told “is not about you”, any time I spoke up about what I needed it wanted.
This led to a life of experiencing being used as a doormat, playing small, being overweight and hating myself and my body, experiencing repeated sexual trauma, never being able to say “no” to anyone even if it meant I was hurting or not living my life authentically as I was meant to live. I wasn’t sharing the me with the world that I am meant be.
I attracted people and friends that used me and threw me away as soon as they were finished with me or didn’t get exactly what they wanted when they wanted it. Or they walked away as soon as I needed support from them or said “no” to anything as if I was of no value. I felt like I was a throw away person.
When I did try to speak up I was considered a bitch because I actually had a voice.
It has taken me many years to heal a lot of that and find my own voice, connecting with a deeper love and appreciation for who I am and to allow myself to express my own voice and live my passion.
Because of my own very personal journey it is my deep passion as a healer to help you align with your authentic self and clear blocks to more self appreciation and Love than you thought possible and consciously create your best life.
How can I help you heal and connect with self Love and appreciation for you, and live your best life with Joy?
You are deeply Loved
Blessing of Optimal Health and Peace,
Yvette, energy medicine healer & founder https://truehealingsource.com