Hey beautiful souls! Below is my latest freestyle poem written from my heart… It’s about my personal journey…
Sometimes we are able to just heal a little bit of the hurt, guilt and shame for things we experience in our life and coming back around to self Love through the eyes of Source Energy.
My heart is beating with so much Love in this moment…
I feel more expansion coming to these words, maybe some lyrics to a new song…
We are all worthy of great Love… Blessings my beautiful Loves! Yvette, Energy Healer & Creative Artist
THE UNIVERSE MADE ME DO IT … a poem by Yvette Marie (True Healing Source) 07/26/22
You told me one too many times you’d be fine without me… You told me one too many times you could live without me… You told me one too many times you don’t need anyone… You told me one too many times you’d rather be alone… You told me one too many time I was worthless and had no reason to live… You told me in way too many words you hated everything about me… You told me one too many times “it’s not about you” which made me stop loving myself so I could focus only on you… You rejected my Love and affection more times than I can count… You proved too many times your words were true… I (the Universe) gave you what you wanted… I gave up, my heart was shattered, all I could do was walk away so you could find the one you want… It couldn’t be any other way… Do you see how it works now? Just because I walked away doesn’t mean it was easy… Just because I walked away doesn’t mean it didn’t hurt like hell… Just because I walked away doesn’t mean I didn’t love you with all my heart… Just because I walked away doesn’t mean I wanted it to turn out this way… The Universe Made Me Do It… I simply began loving myself and realized I was worth great Love, too…
Yvette lives boldly from her Heart allowing Source Energy to guide her toward living her best life inJoy. She shares information as a coach about law of attraction and spiritual consciousness, and leads by example as a positive energy & authentic living guide and is certified in multiple energy healing methods and is also a creative artist. Yvette has not only used these tools to profoundly self heal many areas of her life, but has also worked with others in discovering self love through reconnection with Source Energy, increased appreciation and more inner peace and live more authentically and empowered to experience their best life.
*PLEASE NOTE: I am not a licensed healthcare provider, counselor or therapist. I offer my services as a self-help educator and coach to natural wellness and positive living guide from my own personal experience and coaching others to betterment. I do not diagnose or treat illness, disease, or psychological problems. eCoaching Sessions and energy healing are not a substitute for medical advice, therapy or other counseling from a medical professional. True Healing Source offers an alternative method that is considered complimentary to other healing methods and can been used to enhance other traditional healing methods. If you are experiencing a significant issue, are in distress or significant pain, please connect with the appropriate professional service such as a licensed doctor. By choosing this eCoaching Service, you agree to be 100% fully responsible for your health and well-being physically and emotionally. You release all responsibility and liability from True Healing Source and it’s affiliates. You take 100% full responsibility for you self-healing and health.
For many people, sex and pornography are very sensitive subjects. Sex is a very private subject in general for many people.
In today’s culture porn is free everywhere and even commercialized and joked about on TV shows and family comedies as if it’s cute or funny.
Pornography is a very secretive topic for many, especially those who hide it from their spouse or partner either out of shame or knowing their partner would be hurt or leave the relationship if found out. Pornography can ruin marriages and intimate trusting relationships, and it can break up families. Pornography can cause depression in both the viewer and the person that finds out their spouse has been using porn.
Women married to men with a pornography addiction report feelings of deep betrayal, mistrust that can never be regained, anger and severe self worth issues once the addiction is discovered. Pornographic use can lead to infidelity and even divorce.
Extensive research has been done on the effects of pornography on a person emotionally and physically. It has been discovered that many people’s first exposure to pornography was very young at 4 or 5 years old. In years past, many children discovered pornography through finding their dad’s magazine collection.
One of my daughters first exposure to sex was when she discovered a porn magazine at a neighbors house when she was very young (about 6 or 7 years old). She was traumatized and crying and had a difficult time talking about it. She was frightened and disgusted with the images she saw. She asked if the images she saw was what sex was. When she described what she saw, I explained to her what healthy sex was between consenting partners. I purchased the book “Where Did I Come From” and we read the book together. She asked a few very open questions and was satisfied with our conversation. This led to an open communication between my daughter and I for future difficult conversations.
One Professional Opinion
A few years ago, I had an opportunity to talk with a psychologist who specialized in family counseling and they revealed to me that in over 20 years in practice had they ever found a situation where pornography benefited a marriage positively and in most cases even with therapy, when the pornography addiction was discovered, the marriage ended in divorce.
How Can Pornography Affect Women Who Discover Their Husband Using Porn?
Can the use of pornography cause PTSD symptoms?
I know someone very close to me who discovered her husbands pornography use after returning home unexpectedly one day. She wondered why their sex life had been virtually extinct more than ever before. He never seemed very physically affectionate or interested in her sexually which made her feel unwanted and incomplete as a woman in her marriage. She recalled they had only been intimate maybe twice in the past year or so, one of those times had been that very morning. She came home from an appointment and walked in on him watching pornography. The horror she felt struck her powerfully and unexpectedly. She began to shake and cry and could not speak. She felt her legs weaken beneath her and felt as if time stood still. Admitting that is was one of the most severe traumas she ever experienced, she recounted it as if it were yesterday, how she felt such betrayal as if she just walked in on him having an extra marital affair right before her eyes with multiple women all at once. Since sexual intimacy was infrequent between them (although much desired more frequently) she immediately felt that she was not good enough as a woman, and that he was now using the porn to wash the memory of their love making that morning out of his mind, as if porn had something better to offer. She recounted that her husband had begun calling it “fucking” instead of making Love which was so cold and disconnected. In her mind each time they made Love it was as if their souls were merging on a physical level. It was something beautiful and sacred and his words and actions made it feel dirty and cold.
As the days and weeks and months went by, she began to silently question her identity, her marriage, her sexuality, her womanhood and femininity. She felt disgusting in her own skin. She felt worthless. She began questioning everything including the trust she had in her husband and their marriage. What else had he been hiding from her? What else had he lied about? She wondered what other secrets there might be. She noticed that he had begun commenting on her body image negatively and openly. She made many different attempts to heal the intimacy and connection between them however, when she initiated intimacy he seemed annoyed with her affection. She noticed he would stay up late watching TV and make excuses that he was too tired to be intimate with her. She noticed the way specific other women acted around him and how he acted around them in a way she never noticed before. She recalled times when she questioned his fidelity to her due to the behavior between him and certain other women they had known in the past but brushed it off in hopes it was simply her imagination. She quickly fell into a deep dark depression crying every day alone where no one else could see her and trying to put on a happy face for others to see. She found it difficult to just get out of bed and function normally. She said she felt completely alone and embarrassed that this had happened. She felt inadequate and completely undesirable as a woman. She felt she was no competition for the porn he watched. She discovered that there were support groups for this but was too embarrassed to ask for help anyway. She thought there was something wrong with her. She didn’t realize other women felt the same way when they discovered their husband or boyfriend had been secretly using pornography. It took her years to recover on her own through self healing to discover her own self worth and discover self love and in turn made a conscious choice to do everything in her power to heal the relationship with her husband. She revealed at some point she decided this would not break her, she was worth more and that after researching the affects that porn normally has on a marriage, she made a decision that she would not be a statistic, and that she would make every attempt to heal herself and her marriage. Even though it was difficult to talk about, she openly admitted to her husband it was still a deal breaker for her as it always had been which he knew from the beginning. She chose to make every attempt to rebuild herself and work on rebuilding her marriage to something better than it ever was before despite the odds.
She spent the better part of 5-6 years with in-depth self healing and realized her own self worth and discovered a self love that she did not know was possible. She opened her eyes to other relationship issues that she had once been avoiding or trying to heal on her own without the support of her husband to fully heal the relationship. Not only did she realize negative behavior which included severe verbal abuse at times to both herself and children, but she also recognized the trust could not be restored since he knowingly and selfishly broke the vow he had made to her and had broken her trust in many other ways knowing full well it was one of only very a few deal breakers in their marriage, and so she chose to leave the relationship in a much more empowered and healthy manner.
What happens when you watch pornography?
It has been discovered that pornography hijacks the pleasure center of your brain and in turn the more you watch, the more difficult it is to quit. It is a quick addiction that takes over your life. When you watch porn, it floods your neuro-network with dopamine. And, the more you watch, the more difficult it is to find joy and pleasure in other activities outside of pornography. It is more difficult to find pleasure in “normal” sex within a monogamous relationship. In turn, this can create less intimacy or sex with your partner as you opt for pornography in order to satisfy you instead of intimacy between you and your partner. Porn provides quick satisfaction vs. taking the time to be with another person and connect spiritually, physically and emotionally.
Another Testimonial of the Affects of Pornography on a Relationship
I can remember years ago, I knew a young girl, barely 20 years old, who’s boyfriend began using pornography, and she would come in to work and confide in me about the things he asked her to do. He was her first sexual partner. She shared that he could not have normal sex any more, and that he could not climax without the use of pornography or some sort of rough sex with her or strange situation or scenario. At times he would request her to do something dangerous or harmful in order to have sex and in order for him to be aroused and climax during sex with her present.
How Pornography Portrays Sex
In many cases it has been found that pornography depicts sex as mainly one sided in the man’s favor. Usually it is rough or forceful in some way. The woman is usually in a subservient position physically or emotionally. And, it depicts that a man being rough during sex is pleasurable to women. In many cases the woman is shown moaning in pleasure or just laying there as the man is being pleasured or having rough sex with her. It shows that men basically have to do nothing to pleasure a woman other than to show up. Just the sight of him is erotic and arousing and practically brings her to orgasm, which for most women is not normally the case.
Pornography does nothing to show the deep soul connection and intimacy between people spiritually, emotionally or physically. It is robotic and un-emotional and simply unrealistic. This is in many cases children’s first exposure to what sex is. And, in most cases is frightening. And, they begin to imagine their parents this way or other adults they know. I can only imagine them worrying about growing up and having to experience sex in such fear. It is horrible.
With such free porn everywhere you turn, is it any wonder that many men don’t know how to pleasure a woman which begins with an emotional connection or spiritual connection? Is it any wonder that men get frustrated taking time for intimacy and upset if a woman does not climax within minutes of initiating sex? Is it any wonder that women feel inferior or worthless in the bedroom and outside the bedroom with the expectancy to perform like porn stars? Is it any wonder many women don’t even expect sex to be pleasurable because they have mates that just assume their presence causes them to orgasm repeatedly? Is it any wonder many women go through life without orgasm because they don’t know any better or wonder what is wrong with them because they don’t enjoy sex like a porn star or perform like a porn star on the screen? I have a feeling there are many women who would like to be sensual or erotic with their partner or husband however feel there is no sense in trying. Either they feel unworthy due to the competition of what porn exhibits as normal that their spouse already has been exposed to and expects, or they feel unworthy and ashamed in their body since women in porn don’t have stretch marks or weight gain due to pregnancy but instead portray body perfection and kitten like playfulness and sexiness and a willingness to please at any cost including pain. Or they feel shame in desiring connection and intimacy with their partner out of fear of rejection or that they will be perceived as shameful or similar to the image of women in porn. Desiring intimacy and connection with your partner is normal and nothing to be ashamed about. It is the physical extension of the spiritual and emotional connection between two souls and is sacred and has been exploited, sensationalized and made dirty.
How are we as a society suppose to have healthy, enjoyable sexual intimacy or healthy sexual relationships with our partner when this is our introduction to sex as the norm? And there is no real intimacy of any kind and becomes an addiction and a complete misunderstanding of healthy sex before real human sexual contact ever happens?
No wonder sex is taboo or disgusting to many. Sex in a committed relationship should be something beautiful and meaningful with emotional, spiritual and physical connection and trust. Sex should be pleasurable for both men and women. Sex should be consensual. Sex should not be embarrassing or scary. Sex between lovers should be emotionally meaningful, sensual and erotic and bring you closer together. Sex should not hurt anyone emotionally or physically nor feel dirty or shameful.
Quantum Physics and the Brain/Body Connection
From a quantum physics standpoint it has been proven that the body and brain don’t know the difference from what is imagined or actually physically experienced, in this case using porn as a form of infidelity. Chemicals in the body mimic the actual experience of the imagined whatever it is that is being imagined. Glands and muscles in the body react as if the experience is real even though it is imagined. The body fires and wires just as if the act is really happening as it is imagined. The brain is quickly programmed to this new reality (neuroplasticity) and begins drawing the experience into one’s life (Law of Attraction/Law of Creation) in many cases through the act of infidelity.
It has been proven that in many cases the person using porn begins to harshly judge their partner verbally as they don’t live up to the ideals of the image of the actors in the porn videos unrealistic body types, shapes and sizes. This includes critiquing their partners body (body shaming) for being less than perfect or shaming them for not performing a certain way during intimacy. They may make snide comments about how their partner looks or behaves when they once appreciated them in the past.
I appreciate this TEDx video about porn and it’s effects:
Blessings of Optimal Health & Peace, Yvette, Comprehensive Remote Energy Medicine Practitioner, Self Love Coach https://truehealingsource.com
Yvette lives boldly from her Heart allowing Source Energy to guide her toward living her best life inJoy. She shares information as a coach about law of attraction and spiritual consciousness, and leads by example as a positive energy & authentic living guide and is certified in multiple energy healing methods and is also a creative artist. Yvette has not only used these tools to profoundly self heal many areas of her life, but has also worked with others in discovering self love through reconnection with Source Energy, increased appreciation and more inner peace and live more authentically and empowered to experience their best life.
*PLEASE NOTE: I am not a licensed healthcare provider, counselor or therapist. I offer my services as a self-help educator and coach to natural wellness and positive living guide from my own personal experience and coaching others to betterment. I do not diagnose or treat illness, disease, or psychological problems. eCoaching Sessions and energy healing are not a substitute for medical advice, therapy or other counseling from a medical professional. True Healing Source offers an alternative method that is considered complimentary to other healing methods and can been used to enhance other traditional healing methods. If you are experiencing a significant issue, are in distress or significant pain, please connect with the appropriate professional service such as a licensed doctor. By choosing this eCoaching Service, you agree to be 100% fully responsible for your health and well-being physically and emotionally. You release all responsibility and liability from True Healing Source and it’s affiliates. You take 100% full responsibility for you self-healing and health.
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I use this in my coaching and self healing practice to release the emotional upset of traumatic experiences of all kinds. I invite you to try this to release past trauma, a current traumatic experience or a perceived trauma in the future.
Leave a comment if this help you heal something traumatic that you experienced.
If you find that you release part of the trauma but it just won’t fully clear, I can help you release the remaining upset through sessions by identifying and clearing blocks to healing.
*PLEASE NOTE: I am not a licensed healthcare provider, counselor or therapist. I offer my services as a self-help educator and coach to natural wellness and positive living guide. I do not diagnose or treat illness, disease, or psychological problems. eCoaching Sessions and energy healing are not a substitute for medical advice, therapy or other counseling from a medical professional. True Healing Source offers an alternative method that is considered complimentary to other healing methods and can been used to enhance other traditional healing methods. If you are experiencing a significant issue, are in distress or significant pain, please connect with the appropriate professional service such as a licensed doctor. By choosing this eCoaching Service, you agree to be 100% fully responsible for your health and well-being physically and emotionally. You release all responsibility and liability from True Healing Source and it’s affiliates. You take 100% full responsibility for you self-healing and health.
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What is Causing you Anxiety, Stress & Fear Right Now?
• Do you feel stressed out with your job or a family situation that feels too much to bear?
• Do you feel so much fear from the World that it is overwhelming and controlling your life?
• Do you suffer with constant crippling anxiety feeling out of control of your emotions, your body and your life?
I have been there and I am sharing 9 Free insider tools (well one is only a few dollars;) for reducing or eliminating stress, anxiety and fear today!
For most of my life I lived in a constant state of fear, depression, unworthiness, self doubt and incessant anxiety and stress about things that were going on around me in my life and out in the World that I literally had NO CONTROL over!
I have spent the last 15 years powerfully healing my own life and increasing self love and healing unworthiness in order to live more empowered with a sense of self love and appreciation I never thought possible.
I have used these tools and other powerful methods to help many other women heal their unworthiness, anxiety and panic attacks, fear of living, fear of leaving the house, depression, daily bouts of crying, lack of motivation, low self esteem, body shame, creating more money and manifesting happier relationships and more!
Here I am sharing 9 FREE powerful tools with you can use right now to help bring more peace and calm into your mind and body.
You can watch now below:
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Yvette is a Self Love Coach & Comprehensive Energy Healer and utilizes powerful tools to help you SHORTCUT YOUR JOURNEY and tap into over 15 years of her experience, expertise and her intense study of spiritual consciousness, self healing & COMPREHENSIVE ENERGY HEALING, law of attraction tools and everything in between in order to manifest your best life ever!
“When you start seeing your worth, you’ll find it harder to stay around people who don’t”
From a young age we are taught that we are not good enough just being ourselves.
We are taught that we have to change in some way to please others. We are taught that in order to make others happy, we have to do things that make them comfortable, even at the expense of not being true to our authentic Divine self.
Moving into the energy of Self Love and acceptance is powerful!
Once you move into the vibration of Self Love your whole life will shift as you know it. You will begin manifesting and receiving new people and experiences into your life that show you that you are worthy, loved and adored.
Every area of your life will shift and move. Through my work as a Comprehensive Energy Healer, I have discovered that self love and worthiness is at the core of what is holding us back from everything that we desire in our life whether it is a slimmer healthier body, more money, loving joyful relationships with others, faithful passionate relationships with a love partner or anything.
You have to love yourself as your Divine (Source Energy, God, Universe) loves you. From a non judgmental perspective, with total appreciation and acceptance of you who are and who you came to be in order to experience this physical life from a completely different perspective than any other being in time or space.
For most of my life I lived in the darkness of body shame, feeling self hatred and deep depression.
I was not sure why I was alive. And, it took me on a massive journey into reconnecting with my Divine Source (Authentic Self, Source Energy) through different forms of energy healing, spirituality & consciousness, law of attraction and self healing. I’m here to share the most powerful and quickest tools I have to help you reconnect with your Authentic Self and align with more self love, self appreciation and Joy than you ever thought possible.
As I began doing this work not only for myself but with the other people I was working with, I discovered that healing self love, self acceptance and worthiness was the root in shifting everything else in your life.
As a result, I created this 12 Week Healing Self Love Intensive Workshop into healing issues with self worth, body hatred and shame while transforming you into massive self love, self appreciation and worthiness.
I invite you to join me for this powerful 12 Week Self Love healing journey here.
See you there! Blessings of Optimal Health and Peace, Yvette (Self Love Coach, Guide to Authentic Living and Transformational Comprehensive Energy Healer
Yvette is a Comprehensive Energy Healer, Self Love Coach and Guide to Authentic living and works remotely with women all over the World to reconnect with their Divine Authentic Self (Source Energy) and rediscover Self Love, Body Love and Self Appreciation. Her passion is helping women experience life from a place of power, self love and authenticity so they can move through all stages of life with ease, grace and self appreciation in who they are in this physical body.
When she is not working with clients one on one she spends her time meditating or reading inspirational books or blogging about self Love and empowerment, self healing, the Law of Attraction or holistic health. Or, she can be found in her home studio creating beautiful Spiritual Goddess jewelry.
Due to my own personal journey I am passionate about self love, self appreciation and self worth!
You are worthy of all the love and unlimitedness the Universe had to offer.
As we align with self love and begin to appreciate all that we are as Divine Infinite Energy we begin to move away from people and things and experiences that don’t align with that energy.
Moving into an energy of Self Love is powerful! It will shift your whole life and everything you know as reality.
You will begin to create from a different vantage point. You will begin to attract from a different vibration and knowing.
You will begin to KNOW who you are and you will feel your worth from an experiential place instead of wishing, hoping or imagining.
You will begin to know that as soon as you ask it is already done.
It takes daily practice to train your consciousness, your neurology and you’re physiology to move into the energy of self love in a way that enables you to live it consistently.
For most of my life I lived in the darkness of feeling self hatred, body shame and deep depression.
I wasn’t sure why I was alive. And it took me in a massive journey into self love and body appreciation through different forms of energy healing, spirituality & consciousness, Meditation, law of attraction and self healing. I’m here to share the most powerful and quickest tools I have to help you reconnect with your authentic self and align with more self love, self appreciation and Joy than you ever thought possible.
As I began doing this work with others too, I discovered this is the root in shifting everything else in your life.
So I created a 12 week Self Love Intensive journey into healing issues with self worth, body hatred and shame while transforming you into massive self love, self appreciation and worthiness.
I invite you to join me for this powerful 12 Week healing journey here.
See you there 🥰 Blessings of Optimal Health and Peace, Yvette (Self Love Coach, Guide to Authentic Living and Transformational Comprehensive Energy Healer)
Yvette is a Comprehensive Energy Healer, Self Love Coach and Guide to Authentic living. Her passion is helping women experience life from a place of power, self love and authenticity so they can move through all stages of life with ease, grace and self appreciation in who they are in this physical body.
When she is not working with clients one on one she spends her time meditating or reading inspirational books or blogging about self Love and empowerment, self healing, the Law of Attraction or holistic health. Or, she can be found in her home studio creating beautiful Spiritual Goddess jewelry.
“I deeply and completely Love and accept myself “.
These are powerful words of affirmation. Many people can not say these words and truly mean it.
For most of my life I didn’t believe this even just an ounce.
I was raised to believe that taking care of me was selfish. I was raised to believe that putting other people’s feelings before my own was more important than expressing what I was feeling. I had to put others needs before my own even if I was hurting. I believed that being me was somehow wrong.
And, it also seemed that if I expressed myself, instead of taking on others opinions and beliefs as my own or agreeing with others that I was wrong. (I love Access Consciousness concept of “Who does this belong to?”)
So for the majority of my life I did what others expected of me and behaved in a certain way to receive others approval in order to avoid conflict of any kind.
As a little girl I can remember being told “is not about you”, any time I spoke up about what I needed it wanted.
This led to a life of experiencing being used as a doormat, playing small, being overweight and hating myself and my body, experiencing repeated sexual trauma, never being able to say “no” to anyone even if it meant I was hurting or not living my life authentically as I was meant to live. I wasn’t sharing the me with the world that I am meant be.
I attracted people and friends that used me and threw me away as soon as they were finished with me or didn’t get exactly what they wanted when they wanted it. Or they walked away as soon as I needed support from them or said “no” to anything as if I was of no value. I felt like I was a throw away person. When I did try to speak up I was considered a bitch because I actually had a voice.
It has taken me many years to heal a lot of that and find my own voice, connecting with a deeper love and appreciation for who I am and to allow myself to express my own voice and live my passion.
Because of my own very personal journey it is my deep passion as a healer to help you align with your authentic self and clear blocks to more self appreciation and Love than you thought possible and consciously create your best life.
How can I help you heal and connect with self Love and appreciation for you, and live your best life with Joy?
You are deeply Loved Blessing of Optimal Health and Peace, Yvette, energy medicine healer & founder https://truehealingsource.com
I’m going to share a very deep secret here today…it’s hard to say…it’s hard to admit and hard to talk about openly…
I am almost 40 pounds lighter than I was just 6 months ago! 🥰
Although it’s true…that’s not the big secret… 🤣
The SECRET is that It’s actually very hard for me to share my successes and accomplishments with ANYONE…especially publicly… Weight loss, business success, accomplishments that I am proud of, anything good in my life.
You see, I have been taught all my life that I’m not suppose to talk about me or my accomplishments…or really anything about me at all. I’m suppose to be seen and not heard….or not seen either really. I’m not suppose to feel good about me because that might make someone else feel bad about themselves.
You are Meant to Shine!
I’ve been taught that I’m suppose to only support others accomplishments and lift up others and never talk about myself…EVER… I was told I was being selfish any time I talked about me…EVER… I was told as a little girl that “it’s not all about you” by the adults in my life who had their own insecurity and other issues to heal.
So, negative comments were made by the adults in my life about others that took pride in themselves or the way they looked and dressed or appeared to have more money. I was told they were egotistical and selfish and even stuck up. I can’t tell you how many times I heard “Who do they think they are?” with a snarky attitude.
What my take away as a little girl was that I wasn’t allowed to shine, that I wasn’t allowed to have needs and that I wasn’t allowed to talk about me whether it was something I was excited about, proud of or needed. I wasn’t allowed to look good or take pride in myself. And, having money was bad too. Of course I didn’t want people to say, “Who does SHE think SHE is?” about me, right??
I was a normal little girl who loved makeup and clothes and high heel shoes and all things beautiful and feminine. I wanted to live in a nice neighborhood, one that was beautiful and safe. I have always wanted a Corvette since I was a little girl. That desire has never gone away. It never will. The new Corvettes are gorgeous! They make me smile from ear to ear! Even today, when certain people hear that I want a new Corvette, they immediately judge me. They make a face and negative comment made to reprimand me. They don’t take into consideration who I am and what I do or how I live, but for wanting such an outlandish, showy, speedy race car. My new Corvette is on the horizon and will be mine. (smirk)
I grew up feeling it was wrong for me to want these things because it would make me stuck up and egotistical or showy. I would somehow get attention, and I am not suppose to get attention.
And even though I have always been very smart, innovative and creative I learned that showing my natural talents, abilities and greatness in anything meant being “reprimanded”, dismissed, purposefully overshadowed and even treated badly and people would make snarky comments about me. Or others just plain took credit for my accomplishments in order to overshadow me.
So, I stopped trying. I stopped owning my successes. I hid in the shadows and lifted others to greatness instead. I stopped being me. I decided it was best to hide my talents and abilities and dim my light and how smart I was.
The truth is that one of my deepest passions and biggest Joys is helping lift others to greatness and shine brightly. It’s one of the things I do best! It makes my heart sing! It is one of the many things I am here on this beautiful Earth to do! I…do…it…well…
I was just uncomfortable with my own greatness or being seen or shining. I felt guilty and selfish, like I was a horrible person for taking the light away from someone else.
I still have people in my life that find ways to try to knock me down to size or shine brighter than me anytime I have an accomplishment. I am not allowed to share my goodness with them. They just don’t like it.
I have people in my life that find ways of letting me know that I’m not suppose to take credit for anything I do.
I’m not talking about people feeling inspired because of my accomplishments so they surpass me. That doesn’t bother me at all! I love it when people succeed and feel amazing about themselves! I’m talking about people who consistently try to out win, out play or out smart me or lose more weight than me to show me up in front of others while trying to put me down in the process while making themselves feel good. They make those comments that seem like they are being nice, but are really rude comments that are sneaky and meant to hurt as if to say, “I am better than you”.
As an adult, I know it is their own self esteem issues now. But, it doesn’t make it OK anymore.
As I was working through some of my own self healing, I uncovered a major block to my personally receiving everything in my life that I choose, including money abundance, great health, weight loss and experiencing my body as physically fit (dare I even say sexy??) and being truly happy. The block was “the need to look bad in order to help others look good or feel better about themselves”. What!!??!!
How the freakin’ heck am I suppose to have anything in my life or accomplish anything great if I feel like I am constantly suppose to be overshadowed by everyone else in the World?
Because at an early age I discovered others didn’t like it when I shined. .
One of my favorite quotes today is by Marianne Williamson… “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?’ Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” (Marianne Williamson)
My intent is to always help others shine brightly and feel worthy and feel good about themselves. My intent is to help others realize their genius, their greatness and their natural abilities within themselves to succeed and have Joy. We all have it within us to be magnificent!
Let me repeat that: We ALL have it within us to be MAGNIFICENT! And, we are allowed!
What I’m coming to understand and have done a great deal of healing within myself is that I am worthy of that, too. I am worthy of shining and feeling proud of my accomplishments. I am Enough just being me. I am here with my own very unique purpose and talents that I’ve been blessed with the day I was born, no…correct that…the day I was conceived…no…correct that…the day I came into existence as a Being. And I am not to be ashamed of being me and having greatness inside of me that is waiting to be expressed and give glory to the Universe that is the Creator of All. .
During the monsoon season where I live, you get the privilege of having friendly little Mosquitos following you around. Now, I am fortunate that somehow I seem to avoid them mostly. However, every once in a while they find an opportune time to take a taste of me. And, when they do, I have something that I use, that works to relieve the swelling and itching immediately, with no side effects, topical ointments, taking pills or anything! I have also recommended this to my daughter, whom the Mosquitos just LOVE to taste! And, when they do…she gets lovely red welts from their taste testing her. Well, a few years ago, I tried something different and it worked, and it was completely free and I use it for all bites with tremendous results and very quick relief! One method is free and the other is inexpensive.
The first one is free to try. If you are familiar with energy tapping or meridian tapping such as TFT, EFT or QT then this will be quite simple. I use mostly QT in my energy medicine (energy healing) practice and so I am sharing some powerful toxin codes that can be effective in neutralizing the toxin effect of the bite. These codes are free on their website.
I found this method the most effective if you can catch it early on soon after the bite, but it does work later, too. And, I also found it to be quite effective it you initially just picture the mosquito or other bug on your skin at the site of the bite just before completing the following…
First, I recommend clearing any reversals the injectant (bite) may be causing in your body which is part of the reason for the reaction. Before you read the codes below, simply tap the side of your hand 5-10 times (this would be the karate chop spot on the outer fleshy part of your hand), then tap 5-10 times below your nose/above your lip and then 5-10 on the indentation of your chin below your lip. Then simply run your fingers over the code below 5-10 times or read it 5-10 times. In some cases just thinking about the bite and taping these energy reversal spots is enough to clear the toxin effect. I have experienced this personally, and in a couple instances the itching came back for a few moments the next day, and I simply tapped the above spots 5-10 times each and it disappeared completely & permanently.
You don’t need to “tap” the following toxin frequency codes, reading these codes, or running your hand over it is just as effective. (You can even run your hand over these codes if you are reading this post on your phone or tablet right away). You can try one or all of these codes and see which works best for you. Many times these toxin codes are enough to release the toxin effect that causes the itching & swelling of the bite.
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Toxin Clearing Algorithm (General) sh mf eb if eb if e sh if e oe a c 9g g50 sh un sh un sh un if eb if eb sh if e oe a c 9g un sh un standard chakra pattern
Toxins – Contactant sh un sh un if eb e if e eb e if e oe a c 9g un sh un standard chakra pattern
In some cases the body requires a bit more to clear the toxin effect and maybe put the neurotransmitters back online. Strengthening the body’s immune system can play a major role in this. I invite you to visit https://truehealingsource.com to find out more.
I recommended this to my daughter, who gets lovely welts when she gets a mosquito bite. She used the same method a few days later as soon as she got a bite. The swelling immediately diminished to a small pink spot on her arm and she no longer had the urge to itch. For her, this is a miracle to say the least! In the past the welts would last days or even weeks, and sometimes get worse.
I have used this PR (polarity reversal) treatment many times by itself when I get a bite, (even in the middle of the night, in the dark, in my bed when I wake up itching with a swollen spot) as soon as I notice it and begins itching. And again, it disappears immediately.
Give it a try and see if it works for your mosquito bites or other minor bites! It certainly wont do any harm!
Another simple remedy that has been known to clear energy reversals and alleviate the itching of mosquito bites is Bach’s Remedy Rescue Cream. It is recommended by holistic practitioners and energy medicine practitioners alike. The Rescue Spray is a remedy for correcting energy reversals in general and can be used if it tests well for you with advanced muscle testing by an energy medicine practitioner such as myself. Both cost around $10-12 and can be kept on your shelf for quite some time as they are homeopathic remedies.
These are both inexpensive & safe remedies to try for mosquito bites and can be used for other types of bites that are not life threatening.
DISCLAIMER: Yvette is not a licensed therapist or doctor. Energy healing is not intended as diagnosis, prescription, or treatment for any disease, physical or mental. It is also not intended as a substitute for regular medical care.
Hold Harmless – by using these methods, you agree to be 100% solely responsible for your health & wellness, the health of your family, and animals and hold Yvette 100% free of responsibility or harm. Use of Energy healing and other alternative healing methods mentioned above, and bio-energetic muscle testing has never been found to cause harm to anyone.
NOTE: There are many choices for you to use in your self healing journey that vary widely in cost from free information on the internet, to similar methods of practice that range in cost from $400 to over $2000 per hour. I offer a fee based, comprehensive, alternative approach at a very reasonable cost, an alternative service that is a choice not a necessity. It is not covered by insurance. (For my current fee schedule, please visit “Packages & Pricing” above). Bear in mind that it is often more rapid than a conventional approach and therefore may be more cost effective in the long run.
Throughout our life, there are plenty of opportunities to receive both positive and negative information and feedback about our self worth, or how we should feel about ourselves that shapes our life and belief system. This can come in the form of physical (some form of abuse or trauma) or non-physical (verbal) programming. Some of these beliefs that you pick up are blocks to you living life fully with the Love you deserve. These beliefs could be blocking you from receiving the abundance and prosperity you desire and the health you desire for you body and emotions.
Authority figures especially have an influence on what we believe about basically everything. And, our programming from before the age of about 5 or 7 years old, is very profound on the way we feel about ourselves, life in general and how the World works.
Sometimes there are repeated verbal experiences such as someone telling you that you will amount to nothing, or that you are no good at something, or that life is really hard and so forth. Other times there is something we might watch on TV with repeated patterns or even one specific incident that really has an impact on us that shapes our view of ourselves and our life to be. Other times there is physical abuse or trauma that ingrains negative beliefs about ourselves into our consciousness. It might even be something we witness of a loved one being abused, battered, betrayed or spoken to in a certain way. And, then we program ourselves to believe this is the way the World works, the way relationships are meant to be, etc.
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I remember an example of a man’s story of how when he was a little boy, he found a specific lady on TV beautiful. And, his thought was something like, “no one that beautiful would ever want someone like me.” He found later on in life that this thought shaped his life in many ways.
Can you imagine how this one thought could shape your life and block you from happiness, Love, abundance and more? It could affect relationships that you create and manifest. It could create struggle and block you from keeping and finding true Love. It could create money shortage and blocks to receiving any form of abundance, if you believe that no one that beautiful or attractive would want you, then why would they want anything you are selling, offering, etc. This is a self judgement first of all, about what YOU think is beautiful or attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. This is true for judgement against anyone of any race, society, gender, orientation, etc. I invite you to think about that for a moment.
Even as a man, this judgement could be created around other men that you are jealous of, think are more attractive than you are, more powerful, smarter, successful or whatever. You will energetically repel anyone that you find more attractive for Love, money, support or anything in your life.
For women, the same thing…you could have a judgement about what being a beautiful woman is. Physically, emotionally, etc. And, if you have negative feelings or jealousy, you will repel these people from being anything positive for you in your life, customers, clients, friends, Lovers, etc. And, you will sabotage it every time, because you will feel unworthy in comparison.
Can you see how just one thought can create havoc in so many areas of your life that may not be recognized?
Do any of these statements resonate with you?
I am not good enough
I am not worthy
I am always wrong
I can’t have what I want
I am stupid, not smart enough
I am not worthy of love or affection
I am ugly, unattractive, gross, fat, etc.
I am weak, unhealthy, etc.
I am a victim
I am not supported
I am poor
It’s not about me / I am not important
I have to give it all away in order to receive Love and affection
If I don’t give it all away, others will abandon and reject me
I don’t deserve nice things
I don’t deserve to be happy
I deserve to be punished
I don’t deserve to be loved
I don’t deserve to be healthy
I don’t deserve to be recognized or get attention
I am not meant to be rich or wealthy or successful
I am not meant to be healthy or attractive
I am not meant to have what I want
Others can have “it”, but not me
I am powerless
No one Loves me, cares about me, wants me, etc.
Everyone else get’s what they want
Everyone else is better than me
Everyone else is better looking than me, healthier, richer, etc
When did you decide any of these beliefs? Sometimes they are conscious beliefs and sometimes they are unconscious beliefs hidden from your awareness.
These beliefs are not in alignment with your True Authentic Self (TAS), your higher self, spirit or God Source. These beliefs are false beliefs created by human and block you from receiving your true abundance and prosperity in all ways. These beliefs block you from receiving the full Love and happiness that you deserve.
The truth is that you are meant to shine, you are meant to be loved, you are meant to prosper, you are meant to have everything that you desire. However, you have to be in alignment energetically and in your beliefs system to receive these things. Otherwise, they will allude you and you will struggle to receive these blessings.
I can help you uncover your hidden beliefs about yourself, others, the World, God/Universe and more to help you begin healing and finding true happiness, prosperity and the Love that you deserve. Together we can discover what the beliefs are and when you took in these beliefs that programmed your life to be what it is today and unblock you from receiving Love, abundance and happiness. We can uncover conscious and unconscious intentions and other blocks to healing in order to fully receive everything you are meant to receive as a child of the All Loving Universe.
Contact me today to begin your self healing toward more Inner Peace & Harmony.
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DISCLAIMER: Yvette is not a licensed therapist or doctor. Energy healing is not intended as diagnosis, prescription, or treatment for any disease, physical or mental. It is also not intended as a substitute for regular medical care.
Hold Harmless – by using these methods, you agree to be 100% solely responsible for your health & wellness, the health of your family, and animals and hold Yvette 100% free of responsibility or harm. Use of Energy healing and other alternative healing methods mentioned above, and bio-energetic muscle testing has never been found to cause harm to anyone.
NOTE: There are many choices for you to use in your self healing journey that vary widely in cost from free information on the internet, to similar methods of practice that range in cost from $400 to over $2000 per hour. I offer a fee based, comprehensive, alternative approach at a very reasonable cost, an alternative service that is a choice not a necessity. It is not covered by insurance. (For my current fee schedule, please visit “Packages & Pricing” above). Bear in mind that it is often more rapid than a conventional approach and therefore may be more cost effective in the long run.
Do you suffer from PTSD due to a loved one being afflicted with Trauma & PTSD?
Do you suffer almost as much as the person you love who suffers from PTSD? Do you have second hand PTSD?
In many cases, the person who suffers from a traumatic experience or PTSD affects those they love tremendously with their PTSD symptoms. A spouse or children especially can be intoxicated by the person who is suffering so much so that they take on the pain and symptoms or the responsibility of healing that person so much that they no longer have their own identity.
I can speak from experience in this case. My father has suffered with severe PTSD from multiple tours in Vietnam and growing up with physical abuse & severe verbal abuse. (Let me begin by saying this post is not to make light in any way of those suffering PTSD first hand from trauma. And, it is not to take away from their experience of pain. Nor is it in any way intended to put a negative light or place blame on certain people or those who experience trauma or react in certain ways due to the trauma they have experienced. This post may upset family members and that is one reason I have never shared this before. However, I know others are suffering with similar issues and only intend to help others fully heal.)
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I have not shared my experience of growing up with really anyone. However, in an attempt to help others heal, I will share some details. My father served multiple tours in Vietnam. He was in the deepest part of Agent Orange and all that and like many others who experience war first hand, he suffered much trauma. He suffered tremendous toxicity due to the Agent Orange and did not find out until a few years ago and even more recently the real health threat this poses. My father also suffers second hand PTSD that was passed down from his father who ran his home like a military as well and was a physically and emotionally harsh environment (abuse) – which brings certain types of trauma to a family as I’ve come to know & understand.
For most of my father’s life that I have known him (as far back as I can consciously remember), our family has never been what I used to consider normal. We have always been sort of outcast by others as I was growing up. We moved around a lot, and I mean A LOT. I can remember moving pretty much every year if not more often, and I rarely stayed in one school, whether it was due to moving or because I had to change schools because I was getting older and had to change schools. I think one time, I counted a different school for every year of school 1-12th grade. I can remember not always beginning the school year with the other kids, which is difficult on finding and keeping friendships as they already had their groups or cliques and I was the new kid. I can remember living in areas that I really didn’t feel the safest. I know my parents tried, but sometimes when there is lack of money, you have to find a house in different parts of town. I can remember living with relatives for short periods, which is most uncomfortable as a child as you can’t play normally as you have to watch everything you do. I can remember class mates always seemed to have nicer clothes and other things. We shopped at second hand shops and I got excited to receive hand me downs to have newer clothes, and I didn’t understand when it seemed that everyone else had brand new. We always had a car that seemed on the verge of breaking down and old. And, a large part of my memories revolved around my dad’s health. As kids, we worried if our dad was going to die. He seemed to suffer so much physically and emotionally. He could not eat anything, I mean anything. His diet was so restricted. He could eat only a couple things that would not cause him to be in severe pain, literally a couple things. And, if he ate the wrong thing, anything other than the couple OK items, he would suffer severe chest pain and esophageal pain and seemed to be constantly “throwing up”. Certain types of physical exertion or exercise would cause or contribute to this severe pain not just for short periods, but for weeks. We thought he was having heart attacks or something and did not know what was causing the pain or if he was going to live. We feared that he would die, on a regular basis. I can remember my dad taking me for a bike ride one day, and he had to stop, because of the pain in his chest. I was so scared that he was dying. We somehow got home. I don’t even remember how now.
He was also mad a lot and even though fortunately he didn’t beat us, he had a temper and used the belt a few times. Cursing and rage in his face, eyes and teeth are the things I can remember most even as an adult when he gets angry for sometimes no “real” reason. There was one incident in particular, that we had a disagreement and I thought he might actually strike me and I might not get up. The rage was so present in his eyes and face, I was crying hysterically and through the tears, I just kept saying, “I want to be happy”.
This particular incident significantly impacted me for a long time. I actually felt like I might die that day at my fathers’ hand. I went into a deep depression and did not understand why. I felt like I was not sure why I was alive. I lost all faith and trust in the World at large. Keep in mind I was an adult when this happened. After growing up in a certain environment and experiencing personal trauma outside of that, it was just too much and was a severe trigger that resulted in an after shock.
For my dad his life has been clouded with an overall negative energy and attitude no matter how hard he tries to be happy or positive.
And, he has never had a sense of self confidence or self esteem as I look back as well. He is always cutting himself down before others have a chance. He always took small jobs and never charged what he was worth. He always lowered his price and was taken advantage of in many cases, as he was self employed most of the time, as he could not work for someone else due to the PTSD symptoms. So, our family was always severely short of money even though my mother worked, too. There were periods that he could not work at all. He was in a state of depression or pain and just could not bring himself to go to work or physically could not work due to the pain.
And, he has suffered severe nightmares all these years as well.
This has progressed even into my adulthood as he ages.
We have all walked on eggshells to avoid upsetting him so he either doesn’t get angry and upset which also contributes to the physical symptoms worsening. And, we don’t want him to go into a deep depression again (which he was hospitalized for when I was a teen at one point, and the medications made it worse at the time I think.) And, we don’t want to deal with the angry episodes and bad attitude, so we are all so careful what we say and do around him. And, in some ways, have all probably felt that what we needed always came second, because we had to take care of him or his symptoms were worse and our “trivial” issues didn’t compare to what he was living with physically or emotionally. This creates it’s own form of trauma even though I know it has never been intended purposefully.
This is the original reason for my search for a true healing method along with wanting my own health issues addressed and truly healed not just covered up.
Our family has taken on his PTSD second hand. We have all suffered not only watching and experiencing his emotional and physical pain, but, taken on certain aspects from him. And, “traits” have affected our life and families as well. We have all felt in some way that we have to heal him and baby him and that our own needs are not important. I have taken on that responsibility in the most drastic fashion personally for many years, again, one reason I found Quantum Techniques and now practice it remotely to help others anywhere. It has become one of my biggest passions today. I don’t believe we were meant to suffer through life without ever healing and feeling joy. I believe we are meant to be healthy and feel joyful for life!
How Can I Help You Heal from PTSD and Second Hand PTSD?
I have found in my own life personally, that Quantum Techniques has the ability to help those suffering with PTSD and second hand PTSD symptoms with amazing results and that is why I use it for myself and to help others!
QT is beneficial for so many things physically, emotionally and spiritually. It is one of the best methods to help someone that is available remotely in the World.
It can help clear a emotional upset from a single specific event in one or 2 sessions resulting in more inner peace and can be life altering.
Working with long term post traumatic emotions can take multiple coaching sessions, however, in my experience, it is the quickest method of helping someone self heal from even long term upsets compared to traditional methods that could take years and tens of thousands of dollars.
From my personal experience and helping others, you actually notice a difference quicker than any method I have found in over 15 years study and practice.
In many cases, layers can be removed very quickly or even all at once depending on what your body is ready to release. Your body is meant to self heal, and all healing is self healing, and your body/mind wants to heal as quickly as possible. It is always guiding you toward healing and inner peace. However, keep in mind that everything is energy, including thoughts, emotions, traumatic upsets and physical maladies. So, when you release a negative emotion, it is energy that is being released from your body. Your body and mind, still has to adjust to the new energy, a lighter energy. So, your body knows what it’s toxic load is, and will allow healing at the pace that is best for you without causing toxic overload and strong energy healing side effects.
The results far out-weigh anything I have seen or found. QT has the ability to clear years of suffering in a much faster manner than traditional methods. Through bio-energetic muscle testing deep layers and truth can be brought to light for effective self healing. And, one of the benefits of QT is you don’t have to relive the trauma or even know what the actual trauma is for self healing. Using advanced bio-energetic muscle testing identifies what your body considers the most valuable thing to self heal first, second, and down the line. This is beneficial in cases where the emotional upset or traumatic experience was so severe that our body & mind has blocked the memory as it is too painful. This can be the case in childhood abuse, sexual abuse or other abuse, or any other severe traumatic experience (which I have also experienced.)
There are many types of trauma. I think most people think trauma is a rape, abuse, being accosted or divorce or something similar. However, trauma comes in many forms depending on how the individual receives it and holds it based on their life experiences. It can be very traumatic as stated above, suffering second hand PTSD, in many ways. You may be responsible for taking care of the person who suffers with trauma & PTSD, you may feel responsible for their healing, you don’t get to take care of yourself so you lack attention you may need to feel loved and cared for and you may feel guilt for wanting and needing love, affection, attention and someone to take care of you for a change. Trauma could be any of the above, or a child hearing parents repeatedly fighting while they are in bed at night, a parents divorce, death of a loved one or anyone you know or even don’t know, death of a loved family pet, seeing someone else abused, emotional abuse through another’s words, even having someone of authority or that you look up to and respect speaking to you in a certain manner that belittles you. A trauma could also be a medical procedure or a procedure going bad that causes distress and trauma emotionally & physically, watching a loved on go through a serious or chronic illness for years, chronic or serious illness in yourself, or even the birth of another sibling or even watching the evening news when something horrific happens. There are limitless forms of trauma that many may not consider trauma, however to the person receiving it, it may be very traumatic. In some cases, you may not even realize it as a trauma for you, however, your body or emotional system may have received it as a trauma and may be holding it inside for healing and can even manifest in physical symptoms to get your attention for healing.
Contact me today to begin your self healing toward more Inner Peace & Harmony.
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What would it be like to lose weight with more ease instead of struggle?
What would it be like to feel joy for your body and who you are?
What would it feel like to let go of the negative self talk and self hatred & loathing?
I am not normally one to share my personal struggles or accomplishments especially about my body. However, I feel this is such a huge issue for many people all over the world, so I am going to share with you my personal experience with losing weight with ease using Quantum Techniques – and some of the emotional issues I have experienced along the way in my weight loss journey. So many people suffer not only physical issues due to obesity or body issues, but also the emotional issues that attach to being over weight or not having the perfect body type – especially when we are so bombarded with body issues all over the tabloids and TV. You may feel if you don’t have the perfect body, you are just not worthy, as I did.
I am here to share with you that it is possible to lose weight with much more ease and joy, and find a greater sense of well being and joy in your body and for yourself in the process.
For most of my life, weight loss had been a difficult thing – working out daily without much change, eating next to nothing, feeling hungry and deprived, angry, frustrated and depressed – only to lose maybe 1 pound in a month. Then, the feeling of desperation and frustration, powerlessness and like a loser – wondering why others lose weight so quickly and easily. Finding no real joy in my body, always frustrated and angry with my body and the way it behaved and felt. The only thing that worked for me (only once) was a very low carb diet many years ago – between 10-15 years ago. At that time, I lost almost 60 pounds eating only protein and a few veggies and stayed on that “diet” for a few years. Once, I stopped eating that way, I gained all the weight back and a few more pounds. Since then, I have tried the same diet, with barely any results. It’s like my body decided against me, and fought me every step of the way in my weight loss efforts, NO MATTER WHAT I DID – Until now.
On top of that, there was the emotional trauma issues of being over weight – and having certain opinions of important people in my life as I was growing up, embedded in my conscience. Mixed messages sometimes, too. I was told I was pretty, and then I would hear derogatory or negative comments about people who are over weight or their booty was too big, or whatever. Somehow embedding in me, that I was unattractive, grotesque, ugly, absolutely not sexy, and not worthy – especially to the opposite sex, and of course, just not healthy.
Enter, Quantum Techniques…
Over the past more than 10 years now, I have studied and practiced many forms of energy medicine – and I am also certified as an alternative practitioner in energy medicine – it is a PASSION of mine and has been for many years. Helping others heal and be free of emotional pain and being in a state of physical health, is a PASSION of mine that I haven’t been able to shake, and hope I never do – I just can’t help it – I HAVE TO DO IT. Through many years of study I finally found Quantum Techniques. I have found Quantum Techniques to be the most powerful and definitely the most comprehensive form of alternative healing or energy medicine that I have come across. It blows me away and I keep having evidence of that on a regular basis. I now choose to work with Quantum Techniques method for myself daily, yes, daily – and with others along their healing journey. It just works. Quantum Techniques works where other methods just don’t.
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Through the work of Quantum Techniques, I have lost over 30 pounds so far, with much more ease than I have in this lifetime, I almost don’t even really think about it at this point, except for when I notice my clothes are feeling too big, and I jump on the scale to find I have lost more weight than I realized and I leap for joy that this seems just way too easy! I am being completely honest and serious here – this is my new life experience. I can feel my body filled with giddiness as I write this post!
Using Quantum Techniques, I cannot only use the system to put my body into a profound healing state for weight loss and anything else, I also test personal energy toxins and clear them daily. Energy toxins and toxins that reverse your body’s energy system can prevent ANY healing method from working – yes, ANY healing method. Energy toxins are identified as inhalants, ingestants, contactants, injectants and other people’s energy. They are all specific to you and your body’s energy patterns – not anyone else. I avoid items that I know test as energy toxins or energy reversers for me and not only does it contribute to my weight loss, it also contributes to my feeling better emotionally as well and other things healing & working in my life.
In the process of working with Quantum Techniques (QT), I have found more joy in my body and enjoy my body more along the way. I have never really felt attractive, beautiful, sexy or wanted – in fact most of the time, I felt gross, ugly, unattractive, disgust, self hatred and the list goes on. I am just under 5 feet 2 inches tall, and curvy. I have always been curvy – even before the birth of my 2 children and even when I was quite thin – I still had curves. I have always felt that being curvy was a bad thing, and felt that my body was my enemy – and my clothes just never fit off the rack. I had certain people who made comments about body types as I was growing up, and I fell into those beliefs – even at the cost of self loathing and self hatred. I have always felt frustrated by my natural curves, and never appreciated them – until now.
In all honesty, I have found more natural appreciation for my body that I never felt even when I was thinner. I actually enjoy the fact that I have curves. I have always found other curvy and plus size people absolutely beautiful, gorgeous and sexy – but not myself. I wondered how they could be so beautiful and curvy or plus size and I could not feel that way. That has changed – a greater part of the time. That does not mean I choose to keep the weight on, nor does it mean I am 100% perfect in my self appreciation – I have my days, which are more like moments now. I feel better when I am thinner – but still curvy, and I actually like my curves now. I know what my body feels like when it is at an optimal size for me.
I have had close people in my life over the years, make negative comments about curvy people, and advise me that I was too curvy to wear certain apparel compared to other people. And, in all honesty, I used to live by that opinion to please them – I was emotionally in pain and yet not really believing it somehow – I really did not agree with that judgement. I lost my natural LOVE of clothing and fashion partly because of this and my body. I would not even try certain clothing styles on because of those people’s comments and judgements. Now, I feel completely different, and I enjoy wearing whatever I am attracted to. I LOVE fashion and ALWAYS have! I LOVE being a woman! When I was younger, I used to design my own clothes for my body shape – and used to love to do so! Now, I actually find joy in shopping and creating my wardrobe! I LOVE clothes – oh, and shoes, I LOVE SHOES!
During my process of working with Quantum Techniques for other issues including weight loss, this has been a natural progression for me and the way I feel about my body. Layers of self doubt and shame begin washing away. Fear of being seen by others begins to wash away. Self appreciation begins to flourish. Finding more joy and fun with your body and what it is capable of becomes exciting! Looking in the mirror and feeling love instead of pain, heartache and self loathing, begins to wash away. Wanting to take care of yourself, becomes a natural thought, too. Clothing becomes a fun accessory! I get excited to get dressed to go out!
Once I lost about 10 pounds, I began light exercise – it honestly just felt natural and right. Using Quantum Techniques, I tested what my body would like and what would be highly healthy for me. I found that using a re-bounder (mini-trampoline) was ideal – super healthy in other ways, too – like lymph drainage. I tested that my body wanted 30 minutes a day. I could split it up, or do it all at once. I began walking and light jogging 5 mornings a week for 30 minutes. I now do more bouncing and jogging than walking, but I do 30 minutes each morning most of the time. If my body and mind feels ultra excited, I may do a few more minutes. If I miss a day, the old part of me feels guilty, but, the new part of me lets it go. And, if I am honest, I notice that I feel better emotionally when I exercise as well – cha-ching! BONUS!
I believe that working toward healthy weight loss doesn’t just address the physical. You have to address the emotional work, too. You have to begin releasing old traumas and hurts and things people have said or made you believe about yourself or others that you may compare yourself to. You have to find love and appreciation for your body even when others don’t – and even along the way to your Optimal Healthy body. I am not perfect, and I would never claim to be. Other people’s comments can still sting and hurt. However, I have found something so profound in my healing journey and for my whole life, physical, emotional and spiritually and it brings me tremendous JOY to share it with others and help others heal whatever it is they need to heal. My goal is to help others find a way to feel more Love and appreciation for their own body in a way that motivates them to want to create a state of Optimal Health for themselves not only physically but emotionally as well, and live with more peace and gratitude, Joy and abundance.
The natural progression of working with QT helps heal all aspects of the weight loss, not just the physical weight loss itself – remember “Wherever you go, there you are”. You must heal – otherwise, when you get to the end of the weight loss journey, you’re still going to have the emotional baggage and negative self image, and the weight loss will be in vain, because you won’t enjoy your new body and what it is capable of. You will still be depressed and miserable in a smaller body.
If you are ready to begin your own journey toward Optimal Health and weight loss, or any other issue, emotional or physical including spiritual growth and consciousness work, I invite you to visit HERE for more information.
I have been studying and using energy healing for about 15 years. I use it in my coaching to help others effectively release emotional upset & self heal emotional and physical issues.
I thought I would share a little about me and how I became an energy healer using some of the most comprehensive methods of energy healing available in the World today.
I am not what you would call a “realist”, the word “spiritualist” comes to mind, although I giggle, because I am not sure that is a real word (I have been known for making up words all my life). I don’t look at the World and take it at face value. I feel something deeper, and have always experienced the World by “feeling” it rather than observing.
I have always felt for people and animals and all of life differently than those I was surrounded by and was told I was “too sensitive”. So, I took that as a bad thing, and tried to be harder, which is against my general nature and did not work for me. I have also always been highly intuitive and as far back as I can recall I have been a healer of hearts, always helping others feel better wherever I went. I can’t count how many times others told me they just felt better being around me. But, in many cases I would take in others energy & trauma in order to help them heal and feel better, and it was toxic for me (which I didn’t realize until I was an adult). Also, it doesn’t work. It is not anyone else’s responsibility to “take on” someone else’s issues in order to heal them nor can you.
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I experienced sexual trauma as a child around age 6-8, and repeatedly again as a teen and to compact it, I was also raised in a home with a parent who suffered with severe PTSD, deep depression, mood swings, many negative emotions, self sabotage, rage & anger issues along with serious health (2nd hand PTSD). We moved frequently and barely had enough money for necessities most of the time.
Even though it was natural for me to be a healer, I didn’t realize that it was necessary & healthier for me to heal and become stronger so that I could help others in the best way possible and not receive their emotional wounds. I would have to address my own heavy traumas that needed healing and were being ignored. I feel that experiencing some of the things that have occurred in my life, have allowed me to be an even better coach/healer that I might have been otherwise, with Unconditional Love and acceptance. My heart is open to helping others heal without judgement and my intention is to help others feel safe while working together.
“I actually found energy healing while I was powerfully asking the Universe for something that I could use to help someone in my life that is very close to me, in order to help them find inner peace and recover from severe PTSD and depression and also lead them to heal from some severe health issues. I also ended up finding that I, too needed it much more than I realized or was willing to acknowledge.”
Eventually, I recognized that if you ignore your own healing long enough, it keeps rearing its ugly head and in time, you just can’t ignore what is going on, physical symptoms, deep depression, self worth issues, bouts of crying days at a time, hiding so no one would see or know what I was experiencing, along with severe self loathing and self destructive patterns that follow you, wondering why you are even here. At some point, you have to address the demons and begin your own self healing.
For me, it was a bit of a scary process when I began to shine a light on the things that broke me down, the things I allowed to torture me for so long. I would have to share these things that I never talked about before with some of the people closest to me in my life. What if they didn’t understand? What if they looked at me differently? What if they walked away when they found out my story and what I experienced that made me who I am? What if they responded un-caring and disregarded my feelings and fears?
I also recognized that it was scary to see myself as healed and self empowered, letting go of being a “victim”. Who would I be without all this baggage and fear? I had been this way most of my life. Some of my old patters actually benefited me in some way up til that point. Who would I be without all this self hatred weighing me down? Could I actually be happy, is there such a thing? Could I actually heal for real? What would others think if I was not who they were used to me being? Am I strong enough to speak up for myself instead of cowering out of fear of “upsetting the apple cart”? At different times over the years, when I actually tried to stand up for myself and speak my truth, I have been called a bitch, because I was not giving in to what made others happy but instead made me scared, unsafe, feel terror, miserable or really uncomfortable. I didn’t know how to say “no” to others or even myself. I found through my own self healing that I believed deep down that I deserved to suffer and deserved to be sick.
It was all too dark, and I pleaded with the Universe for healing. It was either I did the work, or I wouldn’t want to live like this any longer. The pain was not worth it.
Using the Comprehensive Energy Healing that I learned, I began peeling back layers of trauma and releasing sorrow, guilt, shame, self hatred, terror and fear. I began to address the beliefs that I was unworthy, I deserved to suffer, that others are unsafe and harm me. I began to identify and release unconscious intentions to stay sick. I began healing specific trauma fields. And, I constantly worked at shifting my mindset.
I began to feel the deep depression and despair beginning to lift. I began to feel hope. I began actually liking “me” and who I was despite what others might think about me. I began taking care of myself differently, realizing that I am worth taking time for. I am worth honoring “me”. I began peeling back the layers of lies that were covering up my authentic self. In order to keep peace and avoid confrontation, I had been who everyone else expected me to be or wanted me to be in many cases.
At first, it was difficult to be different around certain people who were close to me, as I began behaving differently, with more self awareness and responding differently to their behavior. I was met with opposition sometimes and found that I had to explain my behavior to them when I didn’t react the way they wanted me to, like I might have in the past. Deep inside, I didn’t feel that I owed anyone an explanation. I had the right to be stronger, to heal, to be authentic and not just allow others to harm me. I found that I had many triggers.
Through my never ending journey into my authentic self, I began having moments of self appreciation and Joy. Those moments lasted longer and I began desiring more and more happiness. It was addicting actually! I realized this was better than all the suffering. I began to realize that it was OK to heal. I began realizing that I was worth it. I began realizing that if others didn’t understand or walked away, I would be OK, because I deserve to live happy. I now choose to have people close to me that support my healing and Optimal Health and I deserve that.
I also experienced what you would call “Universal Love” for everyone and everything which has completely shifted my experience in the World and I experience more. I have experienced instant “miracle” healing which has allowed me to recognize that literally anything is possible without exception. I don’t view the World or Universe at “face value”. I recognize there is something much deeper that our eyes don’t see. Much more than we allow our physical senses to experience in this physical realm we call Earth.
It is my intention to help others in their own self healing journey through coaching and sharing this Comprehensive Energy Healing that has been so powerful in my life and share other methods I have picked up along the way to find more inner peace and experience deeper spiritual connection and Universal Love.
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There are 3 main categories that a trauma might fall into:
Acute trauma results from a single incident.
Chronic trauma is repeated and prolonged such as domestic violence or abuse.
Complex trauma is exposure to varied and multiple traumatic events, often of an invasive, interpersonal nature.
It is important to remember that any type of trauma can occur to humans or animals.
Acute Trauma
Acute Trauma normally results from a single incident such as death, robbery/mugging, an accident, natural disaster, a specific sexual assault, car accident, serious injury (dog bite), surgery trauma, witnessing violent event, or experiencing something that threatens a persons emotional or physical safety. It can even be a portrayed thought about an event in the future.
Experiencing Acute Trauma can leave one with feeling of intense fear, horror, or helplessness. This can be considered a form of PTSD, and is referred to as Acute Stress Disorder (ASD).
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A person who has experienced acute trauma may display other signs + symptoms after the event such as:
Panic or extreme anxiety
Depression
Confusion or irritation
Dissociation/feeling disconnected from self + surroundings
Interrupted sleep patterns
Suspicious behavior
Lack of self-care
Loss of focus/production at work or school
Chronic Trauma
Chronic Trauma normally results from repeated incidence of trauma, whether physical or emotional such as domestic violence, sexual trauma, , bullying, serious illness (ex: cancer or other long lasting disease), etc.
PTSD is normally present and manifests symptoms in behavior & thought patterns which can be long term if not addressed.
As with Acute trauma, the resulting symptoms can be the same and additional symptoms may occur.
Complex Trauma
Complex trauma can be present with some similar issues as Chronic Trauma and can result from scenarios such as war trauma (refugee/terrorism, soldiers continually being deployed to war zones ), domestic violence including severe physical + emotional abuse such as sexual assault, physical abuse and verbal abuse.
One source describes Complex Trauma as repetitive, prolonged and cumulative and in many cases involving an interpersonal relationship involving direct harm, exploitation, and maltreatment including neglect, abandonment, or antipathy. Complex Trauma can occur at any age from childhood to senior. In many cases it can occur for a person who is disempowered such as child, a person with dependence issues, someone with a disability or a specific age.
As with Acute trauma, the resulting symptoms can be the same and additional symptoms may occur.
In most cases Complex Trauma results in PTSD symptoms and repeated abusive situations. In my experience, identifying and releasing root cause issues can be very beneficial in complete healing and avoiding future abusive scenarios.
Any kind of trauma can have long term effects (PTSD) and each individual is different in the way they react. Sometimes a trauma is hidden in order to protect a person and there is no “conscious” memory. Sometimes the memory can become conscious later in life with a specific trigger and in some cases never consciously remembered. In any case, it does not make the trauma less severe or have less impact on a person/animals life. If you have experienced a severe trauma and are experiencing severe side effects such as contemplating suicide, I encourage you to seek medical assistance immediately.
My personal experience with childhood sexual trauma compounded by severe second hand PTSD reveals this profoundly. It can affect your life without consciously recognizing why you react the way you do to certain stimuli or triggers. You may have an uneasy “feeling” about something or someone and you just don’t know why. You might witness something on TV and you have a severe reaction to it compared to others. You might even just have a feeling that something “happened” to you but you can’t quite put your finger on it. This was my experience. Until I consciously had a flashback and was able to put all the pieces together and finally begin self healing the specifics of the events.
The amazing benefit of the method of Comprehensive Energy Healing I personally use in my life and in coaching others, is that you don’t have to repeatedly “relive” the trauma in order to release it for self healing.
I have worked with other women who were too embarrassed or upset to talk about the sexual trauma they experienced, and the self healing relief was amazing.
In my own experience, certain Chronic/Complex traumas can result in many lasting side effects in addition to the ones described above. There can also be serious self worth issues, self abusive behavior, self loathing, self hatred, severe depression, OCD behavior, addiction (alcohol, drugs, sex, food, etc.), nervous tics, severe need to be in control at all times, lack of financial income, not taking care of self, denial, fear of leaving the house & fear of large crowds, need to be in a a small safe place or room, unexplained and excessive anger & rage patterns, fear of loud noise or sudden movement, fear of facing away from doors (must sit against the wall in order to have full view of surroundings), fear of being approached from behind, severe reaction to certain situations that can’t be justified or explained (others react much less harshly) and more, being jumpy or erratic and so much more.
Experiencing trauma can be a very serious issue and should not be treated lightly. If you or someone you know has experienced ANY kind of trauma, especially something that is life altering, I encourage you to seek help.
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NOTE: This post is shared from my personal experience in self healing my own deep (repeated) personal traumas with Comprehensive Energy Healing (energy medicine). You must choose what is beneficial for you in healing your personal trauma whether that is a traditional source or alternative source.
Yvette is not a licensed therapist or doctor. Energy healing is not intended as diagnosis, prescription, or treatment for any disease, physical or mental. It is also not intended as a substitute for regular medical care.
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“I accept the wholeness of my Being, my deserving & my worthiness” – Abraham Hicks
I enjoy beginning my day each morning by listening to inspirational information such as Abraham Hicks or something similar.
This mornings’ message is the quote above. It is something that really resonated and felt good as I heard it.
As an energy healer, one way that I use the work I do to the highest benefit, is I use some of the things I hear from Abraham to create a field for healing and specifically raising consciousness and manifesting.
I find this to be highly beneficial and can create profound healing in many areas. Instead of just focusing on something you want to “be over” as I learned over 15 years ago when I began energy healing. Originally, I learned how to use meridian energy tapping with personalized Energy Healing (Meridian Tapping) Codes. I now use something even more advanced in my practice. Find out more here.
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At that time, in order to create a healing “field”, you would use a phrase such as, “I want to be over this….(fill in the blank)”. It has since been discovered that creating a positive intention was just as effective and highly beneficial in creating and manifesting healing and change as it was to create a field of something that you wanted to “be over”.
One of my favorite ways to help others in their healing path, is to create very specific positive intentions (for healing & manifesting) as the field. For example, “I am easily receiving over $5000 per month personal income” or “My body is in a state of Optimal Health & Healing” vs. just choosing wording such as, “I want to be over this money poverty” or “I want to be over this headache” or “I want to be over this anger”.
I have found for myself and others that your intention along with specific wording can be very powerful when creating a healing field for something you would like to shift or heal.
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